This is something I wrote last year on this day. It still holds true. At this time 8 months ago today I was washing my daughters body and preparing her for her siblings to say goodbye. Today, we celebrate the 3 Kings who came to see Baby Jesus. Most of us know the story. Ancient wise men who had read in their books that a mighty King was to be born under this night sky.
Did you know that we are currently working on publishing my private journal and Facebook entries? After several different friends reached out to me and asked if I could combine all of my social media posts into a book I decided that I would also publish much of my journal. These entries consist of the entire year after Maggie died. We are in the editing stage so have quite a way to go but we
For all my loss mamas out there. I know. I know how hard today is. For some of us, it’s harder than Christmas. Suddenly, you are forced into a new year where no new memories will be made. The memories of your child grow further and further behind you. Suddenly, you aren’t able to say, “My child died this year” or “my child died last year.” What in the world do I tell people now?
From the time Maggie died, I heard quite often that the second year of grief is much worse than the first. I heard that the full reality of my daughter’s death would suddenly hit me and I would be in a worse place then I was in that first year. This was really hard for me to hear because I was suffering so deeply and so intensely. I did not want to imagine things going
Thus says the LORD:
Lo, I am about to create new heavens
and a new earth;
The things of the past shall not be remembered
or come to mind.
Instead, there shall always be rejoicing and happiness
in what I create;
For I create Jerusalem to be a joy
and its people to be a delight;
I will rejoice in Jerusalem
and exult in my people.
No longer shall the sound of weeping be heard there,
or the sound of crying;
No longer shall there be in it
an infant who lives but a few days,
or an old man who does not round out his full lifetime;
He dies a mere youth who reaches but a hundred years, and he who fails of a hundred shall be thought accursed.
They shall live in the houses they build,
and eat the fruit of the vineyards they plant.
Isaiah 65:17-21
Friends,
We know that many of you, if not all of you, are preoccupied with the COVID-19 virus that is sweeping our country. We very much share this concern with you and our fellow countrymen. Know that we are praying for all of our supporters during this time, that as we are forced to be quarantined, especially families, joy can be present among us.
With so much tumult going on due to the virus, we would rather not bring to your attention a personal matter unrelated to the virus, but this matter is a potentially serious issue and we very much need your prayers and support.
As you all know, since losing Maggie, life has been difficult, to say the least. What many do not know is that the last 11 months in particular have been especially difficult and have compounded our family’s suffering in no small measure. At this time, we cannot disclose the details of this issue, however, depending on how things go, we may be doing so in the coming week. Suffice it to say for now, certain individuals and entities are bullying our family and committing an injustice towards us, and are now threatening us. We have exercised great restraint the past 11 months in seeking social media and legal action against these individuals and entities, and we continue to do so now. But it appears that the time may be coming where we have to do so. We are hoping this is not the case. We would rather that their hearts be converted and they do the right thing.
As we approach Maggie’s 2 year anniversary (May 6th) and what would have been her 13th birthday (May 19th), and as we prepare to welcome our new child, the enemy is seeking to rob us of our peace, joy and healing through our present circumstances. We remind ourselves of little Nicaea’s words, which she declared so boldly as we left to the hospital to say goodbye to our beloved Maggie – “The devil has no power over us!”
Pray for us, friends.
Love, The Ramirez Family
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Amid worsening conditions related to the global coronavirus outbreak, Pope Francis urged Catholics to unite spiritually to pray the rosary simultaneously on the Feast of St. Joseph.We have some exciting news to share! In 2015, the bishop of the Diocese of Phoenix AZ, Bishop Thomas Olmstead, wrote a letter to the men of his diocese called Into the Breach. The phrase “into the breach” comes from the Bible, specifically, from the Book of the Prophet Ezekiel: “And I sought for a man among them who should build up the wall and stand in the breach before me for the land, that I should not destroy it, but I found none” (Ez 22:30) .
Bishop Olmstead describes his letter as a “clarion call” to Catholic men to “step into the breach” and help stop the deterioration of the faith in society and within the Church. This letter from the bishop has inspired a miniseries on the different aspects of manhood and was commissioned by Knights of Columbus. In December 2018, I was contacted and asked if I would be willing to do a filmed interview about losing Maggie and how to embrace suffering. I agreed. As it turned out, we filmed on February 22, 2019, the feast day of the Chair of St. Peter, my patron saint.
We are pleased to announce that, after a long wait, the video has now been released. Due to time constraints, not all of Maggie’s story could be told. If you want to hear the whole story, then I direct you to our podcast series, The Passion of Maggie, as well as the interviews my wife has done which can be found at our website.
We know that currently there is a tremendous amount of fear and anxiety over the COVID-19 virus and a great many precautions are taking place that are significantly affecting society, the economy and our daily living. We hope that this video, as well as our podcast and interviews, can be a source of encouragement to you in all of this.
Love,
Frank
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How to Embrace Suffering | Into the Breach
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